For the record, I think that C wrote one of his best posts ever. Carrie Bradshaw definitely has some competition... ;-)
I went to coffee plant to meet up with an old friend last night. Kind of funny how we met: I had seen him out and thought he was cute. Months past and I just saw him around here and there. I was content with the eye candy relation we had. Then I found that one of my friends knew him. So the introductions were made. He was nice. Really nice and really cute. Time pasted and a few weeks later we met up randomly again, talked and exchanged numbers. Since then we really don't keep in touch on a regular basis. He is a lawyer always busy, and then I'm kinda busy too. But once in awhile a phone call will be made or we'll meet out for coffee. Last night I remembered why I had a crush on him, and why I still do. But I'm content to leave it at that.
As I was leaving the coffee plant, a friend from my Spanish class called and we met up at BS. She is wonderful to hang out with. There is a really cute guy in out Spanish class that we are going to invite out to a G bar. We both think he has tendancies.
I was getting ready to leave BS when my ex found me. It had been awhile since we talked. It was really nice catching up. He's moving to San Jose. Maybe that information influenced me, but we ended up making out in the parking lot like high school kids. But last night after the animal instincs and wildness had run its course, the mood changed; it was tender, soft, slow and quiet. Like time had slowed and given us that moment to share. He'll always be someone in my life, but things have changed.
"People change over time, which needs to be accepted and encouraged. I believe any relationship is like a two-person team that has the same goals and a willingness to proceed even through hardships." Someone I know wrote that and I haven't found anything to be more eloquent.
People do change. It's called life. Sometimes they grow closer to others and at times they grow distant.
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